Start with the commitment to have each other’s backs… But what does this really mean? It’s not a verbal declaration.  Commitment actually requires daily action and often daily recommitment to the same goal and purpose.  This then creates and results in dependability:

→ Dependability creates stability and individual independence
→ Dependability creates stability which equals freedom
→ Define dependability… I got your back… 100% every time.
This creates security and this protects your love. 

That’s THE secret to power couples and couples that experience extraordinary love… they have strong roots, oak tree type… (one of the strongest trees) their foundation is rock solid and THAT is what allows them to SOAR individually and together as a couple

They have taken the time to build this foundation,
through commitment and dependability. 

To tune into each other and make sure they have established a routine of taking care of their partners NEEDS as well as their own…

Most of us can be too impatient or don’t know HOW to create this or there is one person in the relationship that wants to build on this whilst the other one is more focused on their own goals.

→ Attachment styles…come into play
→ Past wounds that havent’ been cleared come into play
→ Choosing the right partner comes into play 

You don’t FALL out of love, you grow out of it because you chose not to grow INTO a mature foundation that would protect your love, nurture it and honor it.

A great relationship is CREATED and it does require commitment and dedication. 
Reminder: When we have created a stockpile of emotional ‘junk’, instead of cleaning it up we run away from it, to someone or something else.